Saturday, January 26, 2013

FINALE of INDIA II trip

Anna's entry:

It was time to return back to Delhi for our flight back to Bangkok.  We took a very early morning train from Jaipur to Delhi.  The night temperatures dropped dramatically, and sitting next to the drafty train windows was at times intolerable.  I had a light blanket which I also have gotten accustomed to use as my scarf, and it helped, but not too much.  Local people were also trying to keep warm and wrapped themselves from head to the waste in woolen scarves.  They were drinking hot chai - a must morning tradition on the long-distance train.  In the next aisle, there was a group of men talking to each other in a local dialect.  One of the men was about my age.  Judging by his clothes and the manners, he seemed quite educated and eloquent.  Shortly after boarding the train, he came up to me and in a well-spoken English offered me his carefully folded woolen scarf.  I tried refusing it, and insisted that he could use it himself to keep warm, but he politely persuaded me that he was warm and that I would be most welcome to use it.  It was so sweet and kind.  I thanked him and accepted the scarf.  About once an hour I would offer him the scarf back, and he would always smile back and tell me "please keep warm". 
And then it occurred to me again why I had so much enjoyed traveling in India.  It was my second trip there (total of eight months), and despite of the changes that occurred for the past few years (like horrible pollution and traffic), there were things that stayed unchanged.  That was the genuine human connection and hospitality towards complete strangers that are the best part of India.  Yes, it is not the easiest travel destination, and yet, it provokes the best and the most sincere emotions that we long to experience.  It is the diversity and tolerance, kindness and acceptance, contrasts and simplicity that make India so special.  Having traveled to over thirty countries, I still feel that India has taken the most special place in my heart that I cherish in my memories to the present day... 


Rajasthan II, India

Anna's entry:

JODHPUR
Not much to say about Jodhpur.  It is crowded, polluted, and noisy from the constant traffic; and there isn't really that much charm to keep you here for more than two days.  Sure, you have the so called "old town" with a more secluded and preserved traditional life hidden in narrow alleys and small courtyards - the latter does have a certain appeal.  And, then there is the famous fortress, but somehow, after a charming Bundi, Jodhpur seems pale in comparison.  There is one special benefit though coming to Jodhpur - to get good quality prescription glasses cheap.  There is a street that seems to be entirely dedicated to optometrist shops.  We had a recommendation which we had received from a knowledgeable lady we met in Pushkar - her family referred us to their own optometrist.  The trouble was that there were at least four shops carrying the same name.  So, we started with a wrong shop (the owner "pretended" to be THE optometrist we were looking for) - the glasses were more expensive at his shop, but still an excellent quality - around $28 each which would be minimum $250-$350 back home), and eventually we found the "correct" optometrist, from who we purchased another pair of glasses for about $12.  Another, quirky thing about Jodhpur was a very decent cafeteria at a train station - served good Indian specialties very cheap (even for Indian standards it was cheap).  Apparently, the train station's restaurant was run by the government, thus the main goal was to serve the public instead of being pro-profit.  Once we finalized the practical things in Jodhpur, we were ready to head out towards the Great Thar Desert to get closer to camels...



BIKANER
One of our favourite stops for this journey in India.  The place and people seemed so genuine and real.  Originally, we thought to spend a couple of days here, but we ended up spending over a week, and actually it was somewhat sad to leave.  We got quite settled there - the hotel was comfortable, clean and good value with an excellent helpful attitude.  The food just around the corner was cheap and super tasty - I normally don't make generalizations like this, but this was THE best and tastiest vegetarian dhal we have tried anywhere in India.  People got to know us, and treated us in a very caring manner.  They seemed genuinely proud that we enjoyed and spent a good amount of time exploring their town (which is normally not on the tourist trail). 
Through our hotel management, we found out about the location and time of the Camel Festival - one of the most anticipated events of the community.  The event was truly remarkable - the pride of the camel owners was evident in the elaborate traditional presentations and cultural expressions.  The long processions of brightly decorated camels, cultural ceremonies of local girls dressed in colorful traditional saris, beauty pageants (both of men, women, and camels), the competition for the strongest man, etc.  The festival was striking and sometimes almost overwhelming.  Being foreigners, we had the best front seats, and local people were taking turns to talk with us, share their stories, introduce their families, and take the photos with us for the long lasting memories.  We have gotten used to the latter, and yet, it always feels so good to experience the genuine human connection... 
During one of such exchanges, I was talking to a young local man who was explaining to me the facts about the camels, their owners, the history of traditions, and their life in general.  Among the camel procession, the young man proudly pointed out to me one particular camel with a proudly sitting an older gentleman on top, who was the boy's grandfather.  The image seemed straight form the Arabian Nights novels - the tall, strong, wide-shouldered, tanned man in bright beautiful traditional clothes holding a large sparkling sword, sitting like a king conqueror on the amazingly decorated camel.  The unusual image was so striking, it just took my breath away.  I wanted to compliment the beautiful presentation, but instead -  apparently unexpectedly for others and myself -  I said "Your grandfather is so beautiful"...  I just misspoke, happens to everyone, right?  But, it was too late, people around me (including my own spouse), were smiling, and then Rob said "I think Anna has a crush on your grandfather!"  It was funny and embarrassing at the same time, so I tried to explain further what I really meant, but instead made it even worse, "Seriously, look at him - he looks like a king, doesn't he?  Can you imagine a Western man in his age being able to come even close to present himself like that?".  People began laughing further, and Rob said again "OK, Anna, we all got it, you really have a crush".  So, eventually, I gave up on trying to explain what I meant, and just continued enjoying the camels, their riders, and the striking images of the Arabian Nights kings and queens... 
Inspired by the camel festival, Rob and I took a camel safari ourselves.  It was just a "sample" of what the desert feels like, and unfortunately, we felt "babied" too much (I would rather be taught how to navigate and ride the camel myself instead of camel being walked), but it was worth the try.  It helped me to understand better why life in desert may have been so appealing to nomads for centuries - the perfect silence and being surrounded by sands seemed so surreal, it gave a complete sense of peace and tranquility.  We have experienced a similar thing before - submerged in the ocean, but the desert seemed even another notch above it.  It was like another reality, with a sense of eternity if you will..  The sands rolling all the way to the horizon made you feel insignificant - in a good sense; in a sense that it is the nature that rules the course, and we are just a tiny part of this world...  Romantics at heart could relate to it, I think...  Yes, Bikaner was a good stop, glad we spent some time there.

Thank you, Rob, for providing and processing the photographs!















DESHNOK 
About an hour away by train from Bikaner, the town of Deshnok has a very unusual place of worship - Temple of Rats.  Yes, the rats are worshiped here, asked for forgiveness, good luck, fortune, etc.  Thousands of pilgrims flock here to have an opportunity to encounter the sacred rodents, who run the place from the bottom up.   There are hundreds of them everywhere - all over the floor, the alter, the steps, the roof, and if you encounter a white rat - you are almost guaranteed some good luck, if you believe it, of course.  This is the paradise for rats who run and dominate the entire temple premises.  They're fed constantly - several buckets of fresh milk were brought out hourly when we were there, and it actually was quite cute watching the rats making a circle over the plate with milk, and enjoying it with their eyes closed.  Sometimes, one rat would stumble, and end up swimming in the milk making splashes in all directions.  Once the rats get indulged in milk, they would proceed to the religious representatives to enjoy the sweets and rice donated by the pilgrims.  And, just in time for siesta, some rats would stretch themselves all over the bright flowers carpets left by pilgrims, others would prefer to cuddle on warm temple steps, and a few would try to jump in the temple guard lap only to have a nap under his shirt.  It was very unusual, and very cute I must admit.  The floor though regularly swept was very stinky, and seeing pilgrims kneeling down with their heads and faces right down on the filthy surface demonstrated some genuine dedication.  Yes, people truly believed that the rats were sacred, and that their wish may be fulfilled if they worshiped the rats.  Why did this tradition come from?  As always, based on a legend.  In this case, we've heard of two.  The first portrays rats as the re-incarnated ancestors, the other mentions something about the ancient religious story tellers transformed into rates for eternity.  I am sure there are other legends as well, whatever one wants to believe...  In either case, it is considered a good omen if rats would run over your feet (happens quite often).  As a matter of fact, some rats insisted of jumping on our heads, camera bags, backpacks, etc.  Every step, one had to be careful not to stop on them.  For new visitors not accustomed to the temple inhabitants, to see an overwhelming presence of rats was quite shocking, and once in a while there would be a scream at the entrance to the temple. 
We enjoyed the unusual temple of rats, and in search of other similar peculiar things, we also proceeded to a temple of exorcism (how can you not love India?) in a town of Belaji.  Getting there on the over-crowded bus and being picked up on the highway in the middle of nowhere was not an issue.  However, the temple got "tamed' in the recent past, and the shocking scenes (previously broadcast on the screens in front of the temple) have become inaccessible to the "general" public.  Other that, or the temple has run out of people needed to be exorcised.  In either case, the temple in Belaji was nothing extraordinary.








JAIPUR
We did not expect that we would enjoy Jaipur so much.  Normally, a touristy town is just not our cup of tea, but Jaipur turned out to be an exception.  It is actually quite pleasant, with good value accommodation and food, and it is quite possible to get away from the crowds and explore the narrow streets and old courtyards in a relaxing manner.  Though the traffic is crazy (as in majority of Indian municipalities), it was actually quite walkable and well laid out.  The architecture of the old palaces and squares was gorgeous, and pretty sunsets would bring up beautiful colours of the walled city. 
In the evening we stumbled upon a tiny restaurants run by three young men who would cook up out-of-this-world tandoori chicken served up with freshly baked naan bread, coriander raita, and fresh lemons.  The place was wildly popular among locals, and deservedly so.  We ate all our suppers there, sitting on simple plastic chairs along the busy street.  We normally saved up the bones left over from the meal, and then would feed them to stray dogs.  A couple of locals noticed us doing it, and came out to thank us and shake our hands.  After a few nights, several riksha drivers would wave to us - apparently, the reputation spread out quickly.